Gretchen v. Tamara on Real House Wives of the OC

What is your take on the rift between Gretchen and Tamara on the Real House House of Orange County? We think Tamara is a jealous hater with nothing better to do than create drama. Clearly, Gretchen is hotter than Tamara — and Tamara simply cannot handle it. It seems to us that Gretchen’s ex, Jeff, really did love her..and despite the rumors surrounding her actions prior to his death, she seemed to love him, as well. This was a relationship between Jeff and Gretchen. Who is Tamara to judge?? Tamara sure doesn’t seem to have the best relationship with her husband. And who cares if she started dating Slade. She seems happy with him. Which is more than we can say for Tamara! What do YOU think?